6 reasons why you should stop being too nice
Posted by Kim Báo
Posted on 20:59:00
1:::You'll be taken for granted
People will begin to take you for granted if you are always nice and accommodating.
They'll come to expect you to always be there for them, and they won't appreciate you as much as they should.
2. You'll be used and abused in the end
Being overly nice frequently leads to people taking advantage of you.
They may begin to expect favors beyond what a normal friend would expect, or they may begin to expect you to always be available to them.
3. You'll always be the one who gives
If you're always the nice one, you'll always be the one who gives and never the one who receives.
This can cause resentment and make you feel as if you're being taken advantage of.
4. You'll miss out on opportunities
Saying YES to everything and being overly nice can frequently lead to you missing out an opportunities that could have been excellent for you.
You must learn to say NO from time to time in order to focus on the things that are truly important to you.
5. You'll never be respected
People will begin to perceive you as a pushover if you are always the nice guy.
They will not respect your opinion and will begin to walk all over you.
6. You'll get burned in the end.
People will begin the take advantage of your good nature if you are always the nice one.
They may begin the ask for favors that are beyond your comfort level, or they may begin to make demands on your time that you cannot possibly meet.